There is no such binding affections in the higher realms.
There's only an overwhelming love. It's a love for everyone,
including our families and ourselves. If your parents have
risen above the astral level, then despite your constant longing
with loving and binding affection, you won't be able to see
them again. Do you understand? {Yes.} You should be happy for
your parents.
When we mourn someone’s death we only
mourn his physical body. As for that person once he has gone
to Heaven he enters a place of noble living, bliss, great happiness
and completeness, where any wish can be fulfilled immediately
and one's body, spirit and soul are extremely contented, where
traveling takes an instant, there is no need for clothing and
there's nothing to worry about, so one can use his leisure
time for the study of the more noble and mysterious facets
of the universe. Therefore, don't try to drag them down for
any reason at all.
Our loved ones have gone to the higher
realms to enjoy things that are a hundred, a thousand, or
ten thousand times better than ours. We should feel good
for them. We should throw a party, to celebrate them rather
than mourning. Mourning only hinders their spirit. They
are now sacred souls. They’re
no longer bound as we are, by the confinement of physical bodies.
Therefore, they'll immediately know what we’re thinking
about. They’re always connected with us.